Children’s Picture Book on Abortion & Apology to Author

There’s a children’s picture book, Sister Apple, Sister Pig, causing a great disturbance among conservative Christians.

The theme of the book is abortion. Thankfully, this book is only available online and isn’t readily available in your child’s library.

I read the free e-book. Then I read the reviews and interviews. I can see why the response was so intense.

What Makes People Angry

The author, Mary Walling Blackburn, presents the topic of abortion in the form of a children’s picture book.

While she says it is meant for adults, not children, it is still formatted as a children’s book and the main character is three years old. It’s dedicated to “Little Friends.” By all publishing standards, it looks like a children’s book. Abortion is not an appropriate topic for a young child.

Interviews found online with Ms. Blackburn reveal many unsettling and bizarre opinions. She likes to express them with a scholarly vocabulary. But Christians find her words profane and offensive.

Ms. Blackburn is an assistant art professor at a Methodist University. Perhaps that’s where the worst sting lies. She works for an educational organization that claims to be a denomination of the Christian faith.

I don’t know what Ms. Blackburn’s relationship with Christ is. All I know is if you disagree with the Bible, then you disagree with God.

The intention of this post is not to blast insults at Ms. Blackburn as some folks have done.

Neither do I intend to praise her. To avoid any confusion, I want to be clear—I do not agree with her stance on life. Neither do I support her work.

However, what I’d like to do is offer a sincere apology to Ms. Blackburn.

Please allow me to explain.

Things I Noticed

As I read Sister Apple, Sister Pig, there were some things I noticed which were not mentioned in the critiques I read online.

While it is evident Ms. Blackburn is well educated, she still struggles with finding the right word for the aborted baby mentioned in the book.

Her three-year-old main character, Lee, asks if his sister is an apple or a pig before finally settling with his mother’s description of her as a ghost.

Ms. Blackburn also acknowledges the unborn baby as a human being, not a clump of cells. In fact, the story says Lee thinks his sister must have looked a lot like him.

Whether she admits it or not, just as Lee struggles with the abortion of a sibling, apparently so does this author. On her dedication page, Ms. Blackburn includes her own “ghost sister.”

I wonder if many people took time to find out that Ms. Blackburn’s own parent unloaded the same kind of information on her when she was only four-years-old. Except it wasn’t in the form of a storybook. It really happened.

Think about that for a moment.

As a young child, how would you have felt if your mama told you she took the life of your older sister instead of allowing her to live?

In Ms. Blackburn’s book, the reasons given for the abortion are a lack of time and money.

What do you think would cross a preschooler’s mind the next time his mama mentions she’s running low on money or hasn’t enough time in the day?

Perhaps that she/he is not wanted either.

Many people lamented the book teaches abortion as a good thing. I’m not so sure about that. Perhaps it was Ms. Blackburn’s intention to promote abortion or justify it somehow, but I think that could backfire.

Despite the sunlit photos–sadness and confusion saturate this story. So much so, I think someone would pause and consider not having an abortion.

The child struggles to make sense of what terrible thing has taken place.

Like so many people, he tries to rationalize it.

“I’m not sad that my sister is a ghost! If you kept my sister, you would be tired, and sad, and mad!”

Papa wonders why, and Lee explains:

“Because we would be wild and loud and sometimes we would fight. Mama might be scared that she could not buy enough food for us. Mama might not have enough time to read to me, to paint with me, to play with me, to talk with me….

 

A three-year-old would never think of these reasons on his own. Unfortunately, in the story, Lee is trying to make sense of what he’s been told. He is briefly distracted by the water, a golf ball, a book, even a picture of toucans on the wall, but his thoughts always return to his missing sister.

I didn’t see any reviews mentioning the following sentences from the book:

“Lee might not be listening. Or perhaps Lee is speechless.
Lee does not understand—there is no answer.”

So, my heart breaks for Ms.Blackburn. We Christians were quick to point out so many things. But shouldn’t we have also directed her to the peace that only Jesus can give?

Ms. Blackburn said in an interview she was “playing chicken with the anti-choice people.” Perhaps the response could have been better.

Here’s my response to Ms. Blackburn.

My Apology to the Author

Ms. Blackburn,

Remember when you mentioned that “rosy apple” in your story? Yet, if you look at the apple in your photo, it is diseased.

We are all like that. No matter how we perceive ourselves, we are flawed and full of sin.

Even professing Christians fall short every day. There are some who don’t read their Bibles and some who do. So obey God’s Word wholeheartedly and some do not. We’re at all different levels of spiritual maturity. Sometimes we don’t respond in the best of ways. I apologize for that.

While we passionately stand firm in the truth of God’s Word, some have forgotten to share that truth with you. The whole truth includes God’s deep love for you.

We believe all children are gifts from God. He loves every one of them. Choosing an abortion is denying a miracle. For whatever reason someone cannot keep a baby, God provides a multitude of families who are waiting to adopt and love them as their own.

Some of us may have forgotten that you were once a child, too. I am so sorry you had to carry such a heavy burden at an extremely young age. No child should have to try to figure out why a parent ended a baby’s life.

You are right—those aborted babies are not apples or pigs. Your story conveys confusion, and a struggle for peace about what happens to those babies.

There are many things I don’t understand, but I do know the answer to that one.

Those babies, including your precious sister, are not ghosts. They are alive and well in heaven. A loving, heavenly Father has restored their dismembered and punctured bodies. They are in perfect health,

And they are happy. Not because of a worldly decision, but because of the joy in heaven.

It saddens me you’ve lived most of your life with this wound in your heart. Only Jesus can heal that kind of hurt. Only by trusting him fully can you be restored and experience a full and lasting joy.

I will be praying for you often. Not only that, I’m asking other Christians to join me by lifting you, Mary Walling Blackburn, up to the Lord in prayer.

I’m also praying for my Christian brothers and sisters, that together we will have the courage to speak the truth, but to speak it with love and compassion.

May you find truth and peace in Christ,

Sally Matheny